Author Archives: John

RAISING SUCCESSFUL CHILDREN

RAISING SUCCESSFUL CHILDREN   When I spoke about popularity and sales I was invariably surrounded by people at the end of my presentation and half of them asked questions about their children. Since popularity was a central theme of my … Continue reading

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STOP BULLYING. EVEN IF YOUR CHILD HAS NEVER BEEN BULLIED IT CAN RUIN THEIR LIFE

If your child and his  or her friends  ever speak about nerds and others who are not in the In Crowd in their school in a disparaging way you have a major problem. The chances are  that they and  or … Continue reading

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CASUAL DRESS CODES

Dear Mr. Molloy:   I am a corporate consultant who works on a  computer from 8 to 14 hours a day six and when necessary seven days a week. I manage seven corporate consultants but it’s not always the same … Continue reading

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COMPANY UNIFORMS AND SIZE

Dear Mr. Molloy:   A week ago I started working for a company where everyone wears suits all the time.  The company I came from  those in management wore both suits and sport jackets. As a result, I own four … Continue reading

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DRESSING UP OR DRESSING DOWN

Dear Mr. Molloy:   Social workers throughout the United States are paid very  poorly.  Normally a social worker has to have a master’s degree in order to be employed. The salary for a social worker with a MSW is 1/3 … Continue reading

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MESSAGES SENT BY KID’S AND COMPANY UNIFORMS

  Dear Mr. Molloy:   My husband is a  dentist and we live in a very nice area of town. Most of our friends are professionals or executives and my son’s friends are their children.  Three months ago my son … Continue reading

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STANDARD ENGLISH A MUST

  Dear  Mr. Molloy:   I am a software engineer and I work for a company that creates  programs for the Fortune 500 and others.  Our company is only 9 years old but has a reputation as being Innovative and … Continue reading

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DRESS LIKE AN EXECUTIVE & BLACK ENGLISH

  Dear Mr. Molloy:   I have been very lucky.  I dropped out of high school  in my second year and went to work for this company 15 years later. I’ve worked here for 22 years and worked my way … Continue reading

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SUSPENDERS, BLAZERS AND 17 YEAR OLDS

  Dear Mr. Molloy:   I just moved from our offices in the Midwest to our Boston, Massachusetts office.  I will be the night manager,which is more important than you think because we are available to our customers and the … Continue reading

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OUR LEADERSHIP IN SCIENCE IS COMING TO AN END

Dear Mr. Molloy:   I was one of those engineers you spoke to about how to become popular in Tampa four weeks ago. I enjoyed your presentation but I took strong objection to your  statement that America’s dominance in science … Continue reading

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